DeletedUser wrote: ↑Tue May 21, 2024 1:57 pm
1. You misapply the term gaslighting a lot.
this might be the most gaslighty comment so far!
But, feel free to elaborate.
2. Leaving isn't submitting to the bullying.
Not necessarily. But when the leaving happens as a response to another poster relentlessly telling another poster that they should leave, it kinda might be.
3. “no maybe Nazis really ARE liberators and the bigger problem is ousdahl just trying to call that shit out”....this is exactly why people who used to like you now seem to dislike you. This didn't happen. Repeating it over and over again won't convince anyone you're right.
oh, but it did. On March 7, 2023, in you know which thread. To be fair, it was actually posted as one of those "just asking questions" sort of questions, with liberated in quotations, as if the nazis "liberated" Ukraine. It just blew my fucking mind to read, cuz I just never in a million years thought anyone in their right mind would see "nazis" and "liberated" in the same sentence, even as spitballing a rhetorical question.
Trad then went on to say that the nazi - posted in quotations as "nazi" - situation in Ukraine is actually much more nuanced and complex than I seem to appreciate. But, again, all my life I've personally just thought nazis - any and all nazis - were and are just plain clear evil, with no nuance or complexity to it.
And, for the sake of this thread, especially when considered in the context of also downplaying genocide as "genocide," and of siding with the poster making death threats as if the poster being threatened deserved to die or something, I think it's fair game. It's inappropriate to say anywhere else, but man is it some quality smack talk Behind QT!
4. LOL at you being the one with awareness and humility. That shows exactly how unaware you actually are.
ok, I'll try and be aware and humble going forward.
5. You're doing it again. Repeating yourself and your allegations against others. No matter how many times you say it, nobody is going to change their mind.
okay, I'll try and be aware and humble here. I'll try to not repeat myself, nor repeat my allegations against others.
But, yes, I've realized nobody is going to change their mind around here.
Can I offer, as an example of humility, my willingness to change my mind? About pretty much everything. Heck, the fact I changed my mind about things like political views is what landed me on so many of your guys's shit list to begin with!
6. Your deep breath should be "delete account". Find a different place for a while. Come back at a later date. Hopefully after some self improvement. It worked for me.
I mean, I do take breaks from this place from time to time too. But, again, to acquiesce to deleting my account just cuz a few other posters are antagonizing me to do so, just seems...well..antagonistic.
I am being as nice as I can. Eventually I will stop being nice. I am honestly concerned about your well being as you've mentioned depression and I don't want you to take a fist full of pills and kill yourself as a solution to your struggles.
no, actually, you're kind of being an asshole.
besides, we're behind QT, this is the place you ARE supposed to stop being nice! Don't keep us hanging until eventually, just go full blown asshole, you asshole!
But yea, I'm depressed as fuck. But, of all the reasons for it, I honestly don't think message boarding ranks even in like the top 50. Maybe top 69.
Just leave for a while. Seriously. For yourself. For others.
Again, I do take breaks from time to time. But I just don't feel compelled to take a break when you're pressuring me to do so, in this way, in this thread.
And, again, I'll ask to you and to other posters at large:
if I'm really so annoying, have you considered just ignoring me? Why should it be my responsibility to remove me from your message board experience?