So what is your solution? Is the homelessness in the boomers new? What part does mental health play in this situation?
The faces behind the trend lines include the chronically homeless from the younger half of the boomer generation, long the dominant group among unhoused adults. In 1990, on average they were 30 years old; today their average age is 62.
The new report estimates that 6.7 million people 65 and older are living with Alzheimer’s dementia, one of the costliest conditions to society. This year, the national cost of caring for individuals living with Alzheimer’s or other dementias is projected to reach $345 billion — a $24 billion increase from a year ago.
In 2022, more than 11 million caregivers provided unpaid care for people with Alzheimer’s or other dementias, providing an estimated 18 billion hours of unpaid assistance — a contribution valued at $339.5 billion.
Caring for those living with Alzheimer’s or other dementias poses special challenges. As dementia symptoms worsen, caregivers can experience increased emotional stress (59%), depression, anxiety, chronic stress, and new or exacerbated health problems. Additionally, caregivers often experience depleted income and finances due to disruptions in employment, paying for health care or other services for both themselves and those with dementia.
I just had my biannual review with my admin. She is 52 and her mom is 83. Mom lives with her and is alone all day while admin is at work. Admin is on her cell phone most of the day answering crazy questions from mom. She takes about one day a week off to take care of something with mom. My partners want to fire her and want to freeze her pay. She makes $27/hr plus a 3% 401K contribution plus health benefits, she can't afford to give the job up. She misses little things when doing work for myself or other partners. She is distracted and understandably so. In her review I gave her a raise and told her that her job was secure, we would work through this. She broke down. Says she can't believe she hasn't been fired, she knows things are fucked up but she really likes her job (and needs it) and likes the people she works with. Mom will have to live in a nursing home at some point or admin will have to quit her job. In three years I retire and will not be there to override anyone's decision to fire her. The clock is ticking.
My mom is 86 and in a nursing home in a nice area of St Louis so that it is convenient for my sisters to visit. She is in a memory care facility and the cost went up from $8K to $9K per month last year. If we couldn't afford the extra $1k a month she would have to leave. Annie's mom is 73 and she just went into a care facility due to a mental breakdown and her cost in Fargo ND is $4k per month. Location, location, location. Expect that in the future most of the "affordable" care facilities for aged parents to be in rural locations 4-6 hours from where you live.
If Annie's mom was still estranged from her offspring she would likely be living in her car right now.
When I talk to my mom, at least once a week in her lucid moments, she posits that she wishes she were dead. My dad and most of her friends are gone. Her mind is gone and is always making her miserable/frightened with wild anxiety and imagined threats. She feels like she has outlived the joy in her life. There is no cure and little relief for alzheimers. But our society and her religious beliefs do not allow for her to check out on her own terms. She tells me she prays every day for God to take her. I ask her if she has ever thought of taking a different approach. Instead of praying, just look up to the heavens and give that petty fucker both your middle fingers and tell him to "FUCK YOU, FUCK YOU!, FUCK YOU!". She looks at me in shock, "Ooh I couldn't do that, it would be bad". Me: "So wut's the worst that could happen? He sends down lightning bolts and blows you off the face of the earth? Afterwards you splain to St Peter that you have dementia and he can't take the shit you say seriously, he should let you into heaven based upon those mitigating circumstances." This makes her laugh every time, she has no recollection of how many times I have told her that plan.
And the corporation that owns the facility has a six figure annual revenue vested interest in keeping the paying body upright in spite of what her soul wants.
But back to the topic at hand.
Millenials can't afford to buy a house and GOD DAMN IT they deserve to own a house if they want to!
Housing should just be cheaper wherever they want to be!
AND all of this is Joe Biden's fault! Vote trump, he loves you and cares for you. He will solve this problem for everyone right after he gets done punishing everyone who was disloyal to him.
My millennial daughter just moved to SF. She knows she will likely never be able to afford a single family residence in the Bay Area in spite of her higher than average salary. But she didn't move to the Bay Area to own a home; she moved there for the lifestyle, the views, the people. She weighed all of the costs and benefits and is happy with her decision.