Kansas Crimson

^^^

“I just want to be able to find someone I can communicate with on a deeper level!”

How do you think we can establish the best communication between us?

“Oh I’m not gonna tell you that!”

It woulda been a lot more fun like in your 20s.

At this point, the majority of thirty-something chicks are with kids and/or divorced.

Speaking of…what’s the best way to inquire about baby daddy situations?

I never know how old everyone is, but it's pretty awful at old.

I'm guessing 40+ it dips significantly.
Late 30's probably still works fine ( I was in my early 30's and living in NYC so it was magical ).

Yea.

On one hand I wish I got on the apps sooner, and had that shit in my 20s.

But on the other hand, in hindsight my dating life in my 20s was still pretty fun, as documented in the Workplace Hookups thread, the OFFICIAL OUSDAHL GOT HIS MOJO BACK thread, and also that was back when trustee’s mom was still around too.

pdub wrote: ↑Tue Nov 07, 2023 8:25 am I was in my early 30's and living in NYC so it was magical

What was his name?

I don't remember.

jhawks99 wrote: ↑Tue Nov 07, 2023 8:16 am

twocoach wrote: ↑Tue Nov 07, 2023 8:12 am Dating sounds awful.

This

Even more exhausting than being married.

Probably after 40, ( now for me ) yea, sounds awful.
I had a blast dating for a few years there in my 30s.
I think some of the baggage ( and kids ) that tend to come with partners on dating sites in their 40's plus plays a factor.

For me, the baggage isn't an issue. I have my own baggage. Everyone 40+ should.

As twocoach said, it's just tiring.

not me, I pack light. I can go on most trips, in most environments, for pretty much any length of time with just my hunting backpack.


are we talking about something different?

no it's the same, but someone else would carry it.

Being single in my 40s in Austin...pretty epic.

Dangit!

When your bumble date from last weekend said she was spending this weekend on some long-awaited alternative wellness retreat (first time trying shrooms), and you hoped she’d love them and it would segue into finally finding someone to settle down with together (quit our jobs and just go on Phish tour already), but instead she says she spent the entire weekend freaking out sobbing in the fetal position.

Dangit!

Guess I’ll keep swiping.

Thought I smelled something smoldering. It's this thread.




Boom!

I married an angel. So my advice is to get know a woman through lengthy communication. Sense of humor, compassion, kindness.
Or you can go rando and be found in the desert.

I have a date tonight. I booked a good but cheap room in Overland Park proactively, as it said 2 left. It's real close to where we going. I hope they have good wifi just in case I need it.

also: anyone from Utah, can I use your VPN. I know you have it to get on pornhub. thanks in advance.

Back2Lawrence wrote: ↑Sat Nov 11, 2023 3:32 pm I have a date tonight. I booked a good but cheap room in Overland Park I hope they have good wifi just in case I need it.

also: anyone from Utah, can I use your VPN. I know you have it to get on pornhub. thanks in advance.

Say you plan to jerk off all weekend without saying you plan to jerk off all weekend.

Oh I’ll tell you direct if that’s your style. How you doing?

twocoach wrote: ↑Tue Nov 07, 2023 8:12 am Dating Ousdahl sounds awful.

I would guess...