Shirley wrote: ↑Wed Jul 24, 2024 8:08 pm
Trad's reply to you was better than mine, he's right, we're all broken.
Don't be so hard on yourself, Gutter. And while we need to constantly remind ourselves to be kind and magnanimous to others, we need to remember to be kind and forgive ourselves, too.
Life is complicated, and it isn't easy.
More than 3 years after her death, I had to send yet another co. a copy of my wife's death certificate yesterday. Today, I had to dig a copy of my Mother's death certificate out to take with me to a bank tomorrow to deal with more details from handling her estate's affairs. She died on 'Christmas Day last year. Tomorrow is my deceased older brother's, (who was also my best friend), birthday. Compared to billions of other people that's absolutely nothing to complain about, but it isn't any fun, nonetheless.
But, what are you going to do?
I had quadruple bypass surgery April 1st, and yet, I'm doing great.
Thanks for your words - and opening up.
I am sorry you have to deal with what you're dealing with - that probably stir up memories, feelings, and emotions. Hopefully some of those memories are good ones that can bring you good feelings and emotions.
I'm sorry that you went through very serious surgery but happy you have recovered and are doing great.
Yes, when you (or anyone else) put/s things in perspective, there are always people who will be a lot worse off than you (and people who will be a lot better off than you).
A single word that took me a long time to understand and feel is "acceptance".
I struggle with the serenity prayer.
I struggle most with the wisdom to know the difference/s.